As the economy slumps and nothing cool or interesting has miraculously popped out of the ground for us college students to experience, the dating world looks a little…well…uninviting.
But have no fear guys, just because you can’t afford to take the ladies to a nice steak dinner does not mean you’re lame and with a little enthusiasm and creativity, cheaper can be better.
Guys, girls do not care where you take them unless, of course, it is supremely lame like the grocery store. That definitely does not count as a date. Sorry. What we do enjoy is seeing a guy try his hardest to make us feel like we’re worth it.
However, spending a ton of money on your first date is not flattering. It’s just stupid. To any girl with half a brain, overspending gives off the impression that you have no self-control when it comes to money, or that you’re showing off.
First date tip: keep it casual but not “movie” casual. Movies on a first date suck. You’re basically showing her you would rather watch an overpriced action/comedy (because who are we kidding, those are the choices) instead of getting to know her better. Get creative and show that you actually put some thought into it.
“Picnic at the park” date is tricky. It may seem like an easy way to be cheap while staying personal, but it is really hard to have fun when it feels awkward. Save this particular maneuver for date number three or four, when you know more about each other and can hold a steady conversation.
Now I understand that it is really hard to think of places to go or things to do that are both fun and cheap so here are some suggestions:
The beach – When in doubt or close to it, going to the beach is like the epitome of an awesome date. Whether it is having a romantic candlelight dinner, or just chilling on the sand, taking a girl to the beach is like saying, “I am awesome, we should go out.” Believe me, it works.
Hiking – This particular method has great potential. It could be used as a simple stroll down a dirt trail or you could kick it up a notch and hike somewhere that has beautiful scenery like an awesome waterfall, or an awesome-fall. With no money spent, you just totally impressed your lady friend.
Dinner and a movie, at home – Making a girl a real meal is like telling her, “yes, I cared enough to spend my time preparing this for you, and this may be a clue as to how I am in all aspects of life: caring, capable and awesome.” Plus, this way you can watch a cheesy action film while still having a conversation and have an excuse to snuggle…or more.
Remember guys; you’ll only get that kiss if you K.I.S.S. (keep it simple, stupid).